Ok...in summary.

I guess it's bad taste to treat your blog like a Twitter or Facebook update. Every blog I read is usually full of agonizingly long soliloquies about life and stuff. And here I went and posted three short blurbs yesterday. Shame on me. Or not.

Here is the long wrap up from yesterday.

We arrived at a bowling alley in Tucson (actually Marana) yesterday morning at 9:15am. We checked in, got our name tags and started wandering around. About 9:30, the children started to arrive. At 9:45, the prospective parents met and went over some ground rules for the event. Total confidentiality. Do not talk about adoption to the kids. Do not favor one child over another. Have a good time.

If you've ever seen Speed Dating on TV, or even participated yourself, it is similar. Each child (or group of children) is assigned a bowling lane. Each parental group is assigned a lane to start from. You interact with the child/children in that lane for about 10 minutes and then rotate to the next lane. That way everyone gets to meet everyone else, and you get to bowl. At least that's how it's supposed to work. Some of the kids want you to bowl with them, and then some of the younger ones just want you to watch while they bowl. You get to chat with them about superficial stuff, and interact on a casual level.

It is really heart-warming to watch what happens during the event. The kids are shy and nervous at the start, but about halfway through they are chatting with everyone and having a great time. After 2 hours of bowling, each child is given tokens and everyone moves to the arcade area for another hour or so of play.

After the event, the parents-to-be meet for a debriefing. We are each given a packet with info on each child, and a interest form. You look through the packet, read a short generic bio of each child, and write down the names of the ones you are interested in. This information is pared with your home-study info and passed along to the case worker for that child.

I also found out that the kids are asked who they liked, too. So you are being graded by them as well. Some of the older ones had notebooks and kept notes on each parent group they met.

If I could, I'd adopt them all. Foster care sucks. While it is necessary, it still is not pleasant.

GET INVOLVED! You have room in your home and heart for one (or more) of these children!

Fun Times

Well, we had fun at the Match Party. We met several children that we are interested in learning more about, and we are waiting to hear back from the case workers.

Bowling Fun

There is something cathartic about watching kids bowl. They do it with such abandon and fun.

Great match party.

Adoption Match Party

Here we are at the Adoption Match event in Tucson. There are several prospective parents and a lot of kids. This should be a fun event.

Pray for us!

Is enough, enough?

Is there a point when you can't sustain the raised hopes any longer?

We received a call from our case worker today, and she said that the case worker for the child that was available was being "difficult" (my word), and our chances were somewhere between slim and none.

And, the Adopt US Kids website is not showing much in the way of children that meet our desires...which is probably a good thing overall, but a bit frustrating to us.

Yet still, we trudge ever onward.

Surprise!

Well, we had about given up on Adoption. And then last week we were contacted by our case worker regarding a 2 month old girl that might be up for adoption.

So, the excitement is built back up again. We know that the odds are long against us, but we're praying!!!!

If at first you don't succeed...

Well, since the well for adoption has dried up, we are going to start the process to become licensed as a Foster Care home. At least this way we can help out, and who knows. Something might work out.